KIRTLAND, Ohio -- There is nothing like football practice on Thanksgiving morning. Only 24 high school teams in Ohio get to do that as the playoffs wind down to the semifinals in the six divisions. Being with your family -- football and otherwise -- is what it should be about this time of year.
Kirtland’s Damon Washington has helped carry the defending Division V state champion Hornets to the semifinals this weekend. - (Chuck Crow, The Plain Dealer)
KIRTLAND, Ohio -- There is nothing like football practice on Thanksgiving morning.
Only 24 high school teams in Ohio get to do that as the playoffs wind down to the semifinals in the six divisions. Being with your family -- football and otherwise -- is what it should be about this time of year.
Kirtland senior running back Damon Washington has come to understand that more than most teenagers. His perspective on the game and on life has held its share of peaks and valleys, both on and off the field.
While it's easy to see all the yards gained and touchdowns scored by Washington for the defending Division V state champion Hornets, there is a missing element that creeps into the notoriety and celebration.
Washington, 17, has had little contact with his parents since he was 5 years old. He has been raised by his maternal grandparents, Smith and Nancy Owens, in this quaint community just south of Interstate 90 in Lake County.
"I really didn't realize it at first," said Washington, whose biological parents still live in Ohio. "When I got older, it got to be tough. I remember thinking it wasn't normal. I guess I knew why. But then again, why me?"
It was not the easiest way to start off for a biracial kid in a mostly white environment. After his mother was forced to give him up to a series of foster homes, it fell to his grandparents to take action.
"They took him out of a couple foster homes, and we said that can't happen," said Smith "Buzz" Owens, who worked construction until 2008. "I was 50 then. We didn't have to ponder it."
It may sound like an easy call, but there were some problems those first few years with emotional outbursts and rebellious behavior. There also was some tough love that came from his grandparents -- a former Chardon football player and his down-to-earth Italian wife.
"If you can't make A's and B's in school, if you can't spend an hour in [Catholic] church each week, you can't go out with your friends," recalled Nancy, who still works in a nearby nursing home. "I think, at first, he blamed himself for being separated from his mom, but it was not his fault. He really was kind of shy back then.
"They say a community helps raise a kid. They are right. He's got a lot of good friends in Kirtland and he bonded with Buzz."
That's where sports like wrestling, swimming and basketball came in. And, of course, football.
"I fell in love with football," said Washington, who has 1,695 yards rushing with 30 touchdowns this fall and is considering scholarship offers from most Mid-American Conference schools. "I've been playing since I was 6."
Along the way, he met quarterback Scott Eilerman and lineman Bob Matthews, with linemen Ben Nye and Evan Brettrager coming on board over the years. All five senior captains experienced the low of losing to Youngstown Ursuline, 48-0, two years ago in a regional final.
So, even after going 15-0 to claim the school's first state title a year ago, rallying from a 24-0 deficit last Saturday to defeat Ursuline, 38-37, in a rematch was something special.
"It was an amazing game," said Washington, who was held in check for the first time this season with 15 rushing yards on seven carries. "They were keying on me, but [sophomore Adam] Hess [three touchdowns] and Scott stepped up, the whole O-line and defense. I knew we could pull it off.
"It was a special moment because we did it as a team. It was beautiful."
It's beautiful the way players have a way of coming together like family, and his teammates expressed that about their star runner and cornerback. Like brothers through time, they have each other's backs.
"We're his family and that comes out between us," said Eilerman of his longtime backfield mate.
It comes out in Washington when he introduces himself to strangers with a "sir" and a firm, look-in-your-eye handshake. Grandpa Buzz is proud of that.
"Damon's been blessed being unusually talented," said Buzz Owens. "I told him to make sure to thank the Lord and be humble. He's got that camaraderie with his teammates. I remember them telling me not to worry about him, 'We got Damon covered.' "
And Grandma Nancy couldn't help herself in announcing her grandson making the honor roll.
"We've had him since the first grade and now he's getting ready to graduate," she said. "I can't believe it. God has blessed us with a fine young man. He's got his head on straight, and he's going all the way."
Even with thoughts of a second straight state title and a future playing football in college closing in, Washington tried to keep things in perspective, as he learned through the years.
"There were times, like the holidays, when you wondered about your mom and dad and why you weren't a family," he said. "But my grandmother and grandfather made it as normal as they could. They have been great to me.
"I have faith in God and know I'm a good person. I've dealt with it, and I'm not going to let it tear me down. I might have a better relationship with my parents someday. Who knows what the future holds?"
You could say he has more family than most.
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Getting to know Damon Washington
School: Kirtland.
Age: 17. Year: Senior.
College: Undecided. Has offers from many Division I schools. Intends to pursue a business degree.
Height, weight: 5-9, 180.
Positions: Running back/cornerback.
Statistics: This year -- 1,695 yards rushing, 30 touchdowns; 331 yards receiving, 5 TDs. Junior year -- 1,620 yards rushing, 23 TDs; 340 yards receiving, 5 TDs; two interception returns for TDs. Sophomore year -- 490 yards rushing, 535 yards receiving, 14 total TDs. Freshman year -- 126 yards rushing, 66 yards receiving.
Did you know: Favorites include the Pittsburgh Steelers, Michael Jordan, "No Strings Attached" movie, "Almost Lose It" song by Trey Songz, Facebook.com, "Madden" video games, "Hamlet" play and Olive Garden restaurant.
Quotable: "I've been in Kirtland since the first grade. It's a small town where everybody knows everybody. They are my extended family and a great community. It's an amazing place."