LeBron James may want to play on the same NBA team with close friends Dwyane Wade, Carmelo Anthony and Chris Paul, but he wanted his old friends from St. Vincent-St. Mary High to split from him and find their own paths to success.
CLEVELAND, Ohio - We learned last week that LeBron James dreams of one day playing on the same NBA team with his three closest friends in the league: Dwyane Wade, Carmelo Anthony and Chris Paul.
For his four best friends from high school, though, James wanted something entirely different.
The "Fab 5" from Akron St. Vincent-St. Mary had to split up to achieve success. They weren't welcome to live off of James' stardom. None of them wanted to.
"That was just our friendship," James told cleveland.com. "We all said we would figure it out, do it together, but when it was time to split up, we were going to find our ways.
"We never leaned on nobody. We only leaned on each other for emotional help, but we never leaned on each other for anything that didn't have any substance."
After the uproar caused last week over revelations that James hopes a Big 4 with him, Wade, Paul and Anthony becomes a reality, cleveland.com examined what it means to be James' friend for the people who actually fill the role.
Interviews with not only James, but childhood buddies Dru Joyce III, Romeo Travis, Willie McGee, and Brandon Weems - all members of the St. Vincent-St. Mary 2003 state champion hoops team - were conducted before Bleacher Report's published comments from James about wanting to unite with his three best NBA friends.
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But the characterizations of childhood friendships with James support what is now apparent through his relationship with Wade, Anthony, and Paul: James is so fiercely loyal to those close to him, that he'd willingly declare in an interview he wants to join forces with them on an NBA team - knowing full well the controversy it would stir and the potential impact such a union could have on several franchises, including the Cavaliers.
Part of James' support for his childhood friends, though, is the insistence they all shared that each make his own path, rather than live off James' stardom - no matter how difficult or less lucrative.
James would be there to empower, but not enable. For him, it was a matter of principle. For his friends, a matter of personal pride. Each has lived up to his end of the bargain.
"None of those guys ever wanted to live off LeBron," said Dru Joyce II, long-time coach at St. Vincent-St. Mary and father of Joyce III, one of James' oldest friends. "All of them had their own dreams, wanted to chase their own dreams, and I couldn't be more proud of them for that.
"A lot of guys are good friends with an NBA player, and they hang on. That's not our guys, and honestly LeBron respects them more for that too."
The "Fab 5" from St. Vincent-St. Mary is James, Joyce III, Travis, McGee, and Sian Cotton - who'd known each other since they were small children in Akron.
Their friendship was immortalized by the 2009 documentary More Than a Game, which chronicled their run to a state championship in 2003 and traced their friendship back to elementary school.
Weems is a year behind the Fab 5, but his late mother was James' godmother and he was on that 2003 state title team.
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James is a four-time NBA MVP and two-time champion. He's worth at least $300 million now, and his earning potential is trending up.
Joyce III and Travis each starred at the University of Akron and have carved for themselves lengthy, successful careers playing professional basketball overseas.
McGee is in his first year as athletic director at the group's alma mater - St. Vincent-St. Mary. Before that, he was an assistant coach at a small college in North Carolina, making $23,000 a year.
Weems is a college scout for the Cavaliers. Yes, those Cavs. James' Cavs. Weems knows how it looks. More on that, later.
Cotton works an undisclosed job in the Akron area and continues to pursue a career in hip-hop music.
"LeBron's life path is his, not ours," said McGee, 32. "We're all strong minded, all strong individuals. We're more than excited about where LeBron and his family is right now, but we understood we had to work hard to get to where we want to be."
In McGee's case, James wrote a letter of recommendation on his behalf when he applied to be athletic director at St. Vincent-St. Mary.
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James arranged for both Joyce III (2008) and Travis (2007 and 2008) to try out with the Cavaliers' summer league team. Travis credits James for helping him land a European Nike contract.
Both Weems and Cavs general manager David Griffin insist Weems was hired this season to be a scout because of the relationship the two of them built while Weems was an assistant coach at both Kentucky and Oakland University in Michigan.
But Weems thanks James for getting him in the door at Kentucky as a graduate assistant with coach John Calipari.
Cotton, who first agreed to speak to cleveland.com but then declined to return numerous phone messages and texts, landed one of his rap songs on the video game NBA 2K14 with James' help.
"My guys, they weren't always about the handouts, and that lets me do more for them when they don't ask me," James said.
The difference between empowering and enabling is important for James and his friends.
"LeBron's not the kind of guy to live off of," said Travis, 31, a former MVP in Israel and the Philippines who's playing this season for Le Mans Sarthe Basket in France. "He's not a guy who is going to hand you anything. He wants you to be able to take him out to dinner."
"LeBron's the type that, if you're just sitting around, he's really not going to do a whole lot for you," added Weems, 29.
Weems earned $53,000 his first year as an assistant at Oakland and $79,000 his second. He was a member of Calipari's staff when Kentucky won a national championship in 2012.
Before McGee took a job as an assistant coach at Chowan University in North Carolina, he was making about $27,000 in Akron working as a case manager for at-risk youths and as a part-time high school basketball coach.
Travis and Joyce III both earn very comfortable livings as pros in Europe - pulling in six figures - but forging careers overseas can be difficult. Players typically play on one-year contracts. It's more common to not only switch teams, but countries from season to season.
Joyce III, 31, is the German league's all-time leader in assists -- a testament not only to his considerable skills, but also his unique staying power.
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Travis' career -- remember, he's a two-time MVP -- was almost cut short in his first pro season, when he was released by teams in both Spain and Mexico as a 22-year-old. He returned home and re-enrolled at the University of Akron. It was Joyce III, not James, who got Travis back into the European leagues, linking Travis up with Joyce's German team.
"I never thought about hitching my wagon to LeBron's," Travis said. "When all that happened, I went back to school. I was going to exhaust all possibilities, then ask for help. LeBron's not my first step, he's my last."
None of James' friends runs from his relationship with the Cavs' superstar, either. They call it a "blessing" - something that "has afforded me opportunities others may not have gotten," according to McGee.
Weems even says "if there's an opportunity down the line for us all to be together, then that will be great," though their careers don't seem to be converging now.
James, with a massive business portfolio, has a growing footprint in Hollywood. Travis is going in with another of James' close friends, Frankie Walker, on a clothing store in Akron. Walker and James were business partners in starting a clothing line in south Florida.
Joyce III has started his own summer basketball camp. He could be a coach.
Weems, it appears, is heading for fulfilling work in an NBA front office. Cotton has released several music singles.
Maybe James buys an NBA team one day and fills the top spots (GM, coach, VP of entertainment, etc) with his friends? But it would only happen if they all thought it a good idea.
Think of the relationship this way.
James, of course, is very, very rich. He had a small group of close friends when he was young.
Today, he's a producer of a TV show called Survivor's Remorse, a comedy about a superstar basketball player and the responsibility he feels to share his wealth and fame with the people close to him since childhood.
But that's just TV fiction, and not James' reality. Why?
"They lessen the burden on me, for sure, because we all have our own grind," James said.