A first-time father at age 16, Desir played football, attended classes and worked odd jobs to support his family.
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BEREA, Ohio – Johnny Manziel isn't the only Browns draft pick taking weekend getaways from Cleveland.
Cornerback Pierre Desir is expecting to be gone again. He's got big plans with some girls -- dancers, too.
Before checking TMZ's Twitter feed for all the details, know that Desir's wild times might wind down at Chuck E. Cheese's. No magnums of champagne, but free refills on all soft drinks.
"I've never missed a Father's Day," said Desir, who's returning home to St. Charles, Mo., to join his wife and two young daughters. "We're a tight group and we've never been separated from each other."
At a time when many NFL rookies are getting their first taste of financial freedom and splurging a bit with friends, the fourth-round pick is paying on student loans and buying a used car for his wife so they can start saving for their children's futures.
Buttressed by the lessons from his father, the 23-year-old Desir became the nation's top small-college defensive back while raising a family, working odd jobs and learning to stretch dollars like magician's handkerchiefs.
Talk about growing up fast. He had his first child before his first driver's license at age 16. The Haitian-born corner with the long frame and limbs has never shirked his responsibilities of parenthood.
"I knew he wanted to be there for us from Day One," said his wife, Morgan, who deferred her dream of becoming a professional dancer in New York or Los Angeles to care for Keeli, 7, and Kamryn, 3. "We've been blessed that he thought so much of me and the girls. Some people would have given up and not wanted to sacrifice, but he never has."
The past month has been a blur for Desir, living apart from Morgan and the kids and learning the NFL game from coaches and All Pro cornerback Joe Haden. Thank goodness for modern technology and the inventor of Skype.
Desir has shown flashes and made mistakes on the practice fields in Berea running with the second and third units. The competition is much tougher here than at Lindenwood (Mo.) University. The Browns used their first pick, No. 8 overall, to select Justin Gilbert, considered by many the best corner in the draft.
But secondary coach Jeff Hafley sees in Desir someone "mature beyond his years" and willing to sacrifice to reach his goals. The club knows how important the women in his life are, Hafley said, but it's the male influences that helped drive him to overcome hardships.
Long journey to Berea
Jean Pierre didn't live long enough to see his grandson drafted into the NFL. He died in the 2010 earthquake that killed more than 220,000 people in Haiti.
His son, Wilfrid, had left the island nation in 1994 to escape a bloody coup with his wife and two children, Myriam, 6, and Pierre, 4.
Jean worked construction and drove taxis. He earned the respect of his community, Wilfrid said, through a selfless philosophy:
Pierre and wife, Morgan, rarely have been apart since the birth of their children, Keeli, 7, and Kamryn, 3.Morgan Desir photo
"He would tell us if you have something in your hand you must share it with others," Wilfrid said. "You cannot keep it all to yourself."
Wilfrid had played soccer professionally in Haiti, but as war grew imminent he applied for a visa and moved his family to America, settling in St. Charles. He and his wife, Marie, spoke Creole and provided for their growing family – they have five children altogether – through a series of low-wage jobs.
They sent their first three kids to private schools on the strength of a relentless work ethic.
"Both of my parents worked two jobs," Desir said. "There were times when we'd only see them on the weekends."
He excelled in soccer as youngster, his lean athletic frame making him a difficult mark. But the Americanization of Desir took hold during his freshman year of high school as friends convinced him to try football. His size made him a natural for receiver and defensive back. Scouts from Michigan State, Kansas and Kansas State took notice.
Desir developed other interests besides sports. He took a liking to Morgan Julian, a competitive dancer from time she was a child.
"He was a good athlete and he was fun to be around," Morgan said. "He was like silly all the time and I love that about him."
Their relationship, however, took on a more serious nature when Morgan learned she was pregnant. Initially, there was shock and anger in both families before all parents pledged their support.
Keeli was born on Feb. 22, 2007.
Wilfrid stressed the need for his son to be part of his daughter's life. Desir wanted that anyway. While the teenagers lived with their parents, Desir, became a fixture at Morgan's house. Although he continued to play prep sports and prepare for college, his life changed dramatically.
"I missed a little bit of my youth," he said. "My friends were hanging out, going to parties, and I was home babysitting, changing diapers."
Despite being a solid student, he was a poor test taker when it came to the ACT. He scored a 17 three times and saw Division I interest in him evaporate.
Desir earned a scholarship at small college Washburn University in Topeka, Kan. While he played well, he grew lonely apart from Morgan and Keeli back in St. Charles. He put more than 210,00 miles on a 1997 Toyota Camry, driving four-plus hours home at every opportunity.
The family reunited in Topeka for his sophomore season, but the couple had no support system and little money. Because of Desir's scholarship, the government denied them child support services. Morgan, who worked as a gymnastics instructor, recalls it being the lowest point in their relationship, making dinners on $5 a day.
Desir opted to transfer to Lindenwood in St. Charles, expecting Washburn to release him from one scholarship so he could accept another. The coach, however, would not allow it for reasons Desir still does not comprehend.
"I was so upset," Morgan said. "It put us in such a bind. ... We've got about $15,000 or $20,000 in student loans."
Without a scholarship, Desir had to take temporary jobs, paying $40 a day, while still attending class and practice. Many mornings at 6 a.m., he arrived at the agency looking for work. Desir drew plenty of undesirable tasks, but one stands out.
"It was during flood season in Missouri and we were in an apartment complex," he recalled. "Excuse my French, but I had to clean human feces. I had to take out furniture, clean out the water. They gave us knee-high boots, but the water was knee level. That was the worst one.
"Got $40 out of it, but I did it. I look back at it (and) it's not something I want to do again."
Eventually, he found a more sanitary work environment selling cell phones. Desir and Morgan were wed at the end of 2011.
"It was my responsibility to take care of my family, it wasn't my parents' responsibility," he said. "I didn't rely on them to provide food. It was on me. ... I had to do those jobs even though some were gross and disgusting."
Desir (6-2, 206 pounds) parlayed a strong senior season into invites to the East-West Shrine Game and Senior Bowl. He also won the Cliff Harris Award, presented annually to the best small-college defender.
His personal story was compelling enough for ESPN to feature him on Draft Academy, which chronicles prospects journeys to the NFL.
"You know what you're getting when you take a guy like Pierre," said Hafley, who worked him out at Lindenwood and took him to dinner. "You're getting a guy who's going to do what it takes. ... He knows how to come to work every day and he's learning how to be a pro and how to push himself and that's going to important to him – to push himself."
An ideal day
Desir planned this weekend to make his third trip home since being drafted May 10. Morgan said her husband wants to surprise the girls at a recital.
Easy-going Keeli takes after her mother with a love for dance running in the family genes. Kamryn is "the boss of the house," and a speedster who has a future in track, Desir said.
The girls speak to "Papa Bear" every night on the computer before going to bed. They love the silly faces he makes and all the questions he asks about their days.
As Desir learns the nuances of the pro game and tries to rely less on his athleticism, he's buoyed by the knowledge Morgan and the girls will be moving here in August.
Asked to describe an ideal Father's Day, he volunteers: "It would be having my wife relax and taking my daughters to IHOP in the morning."
If you have something in your hand you must share it. That's what the men in the Desir family have done for generations.