If anyone knows what Jason Popp is feeling, it's Akron coach Keith Dambrot.
Marvin Fong / The Plain Dealer"Things we say, decisions we make, they all have consequences. They can stick with you the rest of your life," says Akron head coach Keith Dambrot, who understands the controversy swirling around suspended Richmond Heights boys basketball coach Jason Popp. "I also think we have to realize people can learn from their mistakes. I think we have to remember that." CLEVELAND, Ohio -- The first thing Keith Dambrot said was, "I don't want to talk about that."
The University of Akron basketball coach meant the suspension of Jason Popp. The Richmond Heights boys basketball coach was suspended for the rest of the season for allegedly using racial language in front of his team.
Then Dambrot said he knew "nothing" about Popp's case, other than some news reports. He doesn't know the coach. But he does know what it's like to lose a job in similar circumstances to the charges faced by Popp.
Dambrot was fired as head coach of Central Michigan in 1993 for using a racial term in front of his team. He had even asked the players if he could use the word before he actually did.
They agreed, but he still was fired. The lessons that followed were painful.
"I used it as motivation, but it was wrong," said Dambrot. "As I talk about this, I want everyone to understand that I was wrong. I was unprofessional. You should never use that word."
Dambrot not only lost that job, but he was painted as a racist. He was 35 years old, returned home to Akron and worked in the investment business for the next six years. The former head coach at Tiffin College, Ashland University and Central Michigan was unable to find any school willing to hire him.
"I applied at my old high school, Firestone, and they rejected me," said Dambrot. "I applied for jobs all over Akron. I applied to be an assistant coach at different places. No one would touch me."
The only place Dambrot could coach was at the Akron Jewish Community Center and some summer leagues. He worked with elementary and junior high players.
"It was humbling," he said.
Look in the mirror
While stressing that he knows little about Popp's situation, Dambrot heard that Popp had been coaching and teaching in the Richmond Heights system for 16 years -- the last four as head basketball coach. Popp continues to teach health and physical education at the school, but has been suspended from coaching for the remainder of the season by Superintendent Linda Hardwick.
PD photo"I'd tell (suspended coach) Jason (Popp) to do what he must (in sensitivity training)," Dambrot says. "I'd tell him to keep working hard. Show that you can change." Popp was accused of "inappropriate language, as well as racial and economic harassment," according to a letter signed by some of the parents of the players. Popp is supposed to receive sensitivity training, and possibly could coach again at some point.
As she announced Popp's suspension from coach, Dr. Hardwick told reporters, "I looked at Coach Popp's record, his 15 years of service to the district and all his evaluations, which have been good ..."
In an email, Popp declined to comment about this story.
"The first thing I'd suggest is for Jason to look in the mirror and ask himself some tough questions," said Dambrot. "That's what I had to do. I had to change some things about myself."
Then what?
"Assuming he has been a good and loyal teacher and coach for all those years, then some forgiveness is in order," said Dambrot. "We all make mistakes. I had to live with what I did [at Central Michigan] for all those years when I couldn't get a coaching job -- and I still live with it."
Dambrot discovered that he had to be more patient with players -- and himself.
"I'm still a coach who believes in discipline," he said. "That will never change. But I have changed how I deal with people."
Second chance?
Dambrot eventually was hired as the varsity basketball coach at Akron St. Vincent-St. Mary in 1998. A year later, LeBron James, Dru Joyce III, Sian Cotton and Willie McGee enrolled there. Joyce III, Cotton, McGee and James had played at the Akron Jewish Center and got to know Dambrot.
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"The key was that their fathers [Lee Cotton and Dru Joyce II] accepted me," said Dambrot. "I will always be grateful to them."
It was Dambrot's second season when James and the other three players arrived. He coached the future Cavs star for two years, winning two state titles. Then he was hired as an assistant at Akron in 2002, becoming head coach in 2004. Coaching his alma mater, Dambrot has led the Zips to 20-victory seasons in each of the last five years.
Dru Joyce III and Romeo Travis (who played for Dambrot at St. Vincent-St. Mary) were recruited to Akron by Dambrot, and played four seasons for the Zips.
"Someone gave me a second chance," Dambrot said. "I'd tell Jason to do what he must [in terms of sensitivity training]. I'd tell him to keep working hard. Show that you can change."
Richmond Heights was 15-0 and ranked No. 6 in the Ohio Division IV poll. Popp recently said seven of his 10 players had made the school's merit roll, meaning they had at least a 3.0 grade point average.
In his final two games before he was suspended, Popp coached the Spartans to victories over Fairport and Hawken.
"I am talking about what happened to me because it is a warning," said Dambrot. "Things we say, decisions we make, they all have consequences. They can stick with you the rest of your life. I tell my players about it -- and that goes for drinking, for drugs, for pregnancies, or how we treat people. We have to be careful."
Dambrot paused.
"But I also think we have to realize people can learn from their mistakes," he said. "I think we have to remember that."